Doug hated the spankings received from his mother. However, that all changed when a girlfriend introduced him to the creative sensual side of discipline that also brought balance to their relationship.
I was caned by my mom as a child while the maid would hold me down. I remember there were a few times that one or two of her friends were there and observed. She would say this is how you make them mind and do what I tell them to do. She would usually give me between 25 and 40 strokes that produced swelling and major welts! Believe me, I yelled and cried and of course I hated it.
Then later in life I had a girlfriend who showed me the sexual and sensual side of spanking as it brings blood to your genitals and really increases sexual energy. She also liked it as discipline and we agreed to set rules for each other: she punished and disciplined me by administering with a cane as well. If the infraction was bad enough, I would be secured, usually over a table that had a pillow taped at one end to raise my bare bottom up high and she would use a tie from a robe around my waist and around the table and duct tape my wrists to the front legs. We got married so the situation stayed the same.
One time by surprise she had a couple of her girlfriends observe for additional humiliation. Let me point out that she would accept discipline as well when it was deserved. Guess what? I turned the table on her during a serious application while she was secured, and in come a couple of my friends that I invited. Needless to say, they really enjoyed watching. Of course they were sworn keep what they observed a secret. I have more true life stories which I’ll save for another time.