A boyfriend’s playful reprimanding slap across the panty-covered bottom of his girlfriend has turned the tables – she is now the one administering real discipline to his bare bottom firmly establishing theirs as a female-led relationship.
[Editor’s Note: Dear Jon, Your posting was too good to leave as a mere comment as originally sent. Trusting that you are okay with this presentation, let me know of any concerns. -Regards, Michael]
With my girlfriend, the spankings began with me spanking her. One day she spilled coffee on the carpet after I had warned her to be careful. I told her she was a naughty girl, raised the hem of her miniskirt and gave her a few playful smacks on the seat of her panties.
A few days later I did something that annoyed her and she said, “If you can spank me, then I can spank you.” I had just stood up and was wearing only a pair of briefs when she gave me several firm smacks on them, hard enough to sting slightly.
Nothing more happened for a few days until one night when we were in bed she said, “I’ve been thinking about spanking. I don’t really like being spanked, from now on I should do the spanking in our relationship.” I had always been intrigued by the idea of female domination, so I said, “Alright, if that’s what you want, it’s okay by me.”
Since then she has spanked me numerous times, mostly as erotic fun, but sometimes for discipline when she is displeased with me. We have acquired a few implements, her favorite is a wooden paddle. It is not heavy enough to cause serious injury, but it makes a very loud noise when impacting my bare bottom while delivering an intense sting. After a paddle session across her knees, I can’t sit down for the next few hours and I often have bruises on my bottom the next day serving as a reminder.
I would recommend to any woman who is unhappy with the way her husband or boyfriend behaves to discipline him with spankings. It is an excellent way to settle relationship issues without hurtful emotional conflict while restoring balance and harmony by working off your frustration and aggression toward him. The pain and humiliation of sound bare bottom punishment will put him in his place while reaffirming yours. Be encouraged.
One additional point. When we first bought the paddle, we kept it in a drawer in the bedroom. The drawer was getting full with other items and as the paddle has a hanging loop, I hammered a nail into the wall and hung the paddle from it. I did not realize that having the paddle constantly on view would make such a difference. Now, any time she is annoyed with me, she is liable to grab the paddle and say “Get your pants down and bend over!” When we have a disagreement, this certainly helps to get to the BOTTOM of the problem!